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Services: Positive Discipline
Program Description
This 5-week program provides parents with the tools and skills necessary to successfully implement effective family meetings that create an atmosphere that enhances cooperation, collaboration, problem-solving, conflict resolution, and communication skills, accountability, responsibility, self-discipline, self-esteem and mutual respect.

Effective discipline teaches self-discipline from within the child or adolescent, an “inner locus of control,” by helping him/her figure out what causes problems and how to solve them. Punishment teaches an “external locus of control” where a child or adolescent depends on punishment or rewards from others as motivators. Effective discipline means using methods that teach important life skills such as cooperation, respect, concern for self and others, and problem-solving skills. Experiential exercises will deepen the learning for participants.
Program Outline
Topics will include:
Children are always Thinking, Feeling and Deciding
Encouragement vs. Praise
Family Meetings
Getting into the “Shoes” of your Child
Long Term vs. Short Term Parenting
Mistaken Goals
Parenting Styles
Parents Helping Parents Problem Solving Steps
Positive Time Out (for Kids AND Parents)
Power Struggles
Sibling Rivalry
Natural and Logical Consequences vs. Punishment and Rewards
Why Punishment and Rewards do Not Work in the Long Run and Why a Focus on Solutions is a Better Option
 
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